There are fights and there are fights. There are fights that take you forward and those that take you back. Fights that give you victory, and those that bring you only loss. Fights that bring progress, and fights that force regress. Fights that make you rise, and fights that makes you fall. There are fights for advantage, and there are fights for ego. Fights that enable you and fights that disable you. Choose your fights...

Fighting can not undo the past. But the harsh words hurled at each other during fights can definitely undo the future. Be kind, accepting,  and forgiving in your thoughts, for you may ne kind when you lose your self, like in anger or in a state of intoxication. Think of kindness for you may be enabled even when you can't...